Just to Have a Peaceful Life
By Jim Vanden Bosch
Pat was married to her abusive husband for forty-five years. Not only did he beat and threaten to kill her, but he also routinely abused their five children. Though Pat left her husband three times when the children were small she returned each time because, she said, of financial need. At first she kept hoping that he would mellow as he got older. Then she thought she would leave when the children were grown. With help from a shelter for battered women, she finally left him again, twice, at the age of 61, only to return, this time because of health problems.
Pat died at age sixty-three without ever achieving the peaceful life she had longed for. This extract of a case originally profiled in Elder Abuse: Five Case Studies is a frightening demonstration of the patterns of dependency and denial that fuel the cycle of abuse.
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